Pd aku, 'baik' dan 'jahat' tu subjektif. Sampai satu tahap, dlm dunia ni tiada 'baik' dan tiada 'jahat'...yg ultimate... sebab setiap org, tidak akan lari dari membuat kesilapan...
So mari kita mulakan dgn situasi2 biasa bila kita kata seseorang tu 'baik',
1) Baik anak si Senah tu...rajin ke dapur dan jaga maknye yg sakit, pulak tu, mengajar budak2 kampung ni mengaji lagi..beruntung sape yg dpt jd anak menantu..hihi~
2) Bagusnye bdk ni...post bnde2 baik kt FB..islamik, mst jnis xtgk cite2 unsur 'biru'.
3) Dgr2 ade kes curi kt hostel skg...eh kau jgn la ckp si Ahmad yg wat...baik budak tu, rajen ke surau, belajar bagus...hade ke die nk mencurik plak? Pe da....
4) Baiknye awk, Suzi...awk xpnah lg keluar mlm? Huhu....
So kita nmpk di sini, rata2 masyarakat Melayu ada definisi diorang sendiri ttg 'baik'...manakala org yg 'jahat', acapkali kite dgr bualan2 org yg sebegini :
1) Dasar kutu rayau! Dah xde keje dok melepak tepi2 jalan waktu senja, pastu mengurat anak dara org! Eeeee, mintak simpang la nk wat jd anak menantu aku, ey x kesior teman!
2) Weh, kau xboleh tgk cite2 mcm ni weh...kau tu budak surau!
3) Hai, si Hadi tu la...kne ngadap guru beso lg gamaknye...dah pangai cm antu, mmg ptt la kne..aku rse kalo die kne berenti skolah bru aman kot skolah ni!
4) Hmmm...kalau dah freehair tu, pkai lak mcm xcukup kain, kaki clubbing lg, cmane nk wat anak menantu? Pempuan2 cmni sonok buat main je!
Pernah x kita terfikir, mungkin 'anak makcik Senah' berbuat baik ada makna? Atau pelajar 'baik' itu pura2 baik je, tp pangai die lg antu dr antu yg kita mmg da masak pangai antu die mcm 'Hadi'? Atau...mungkinkah Hadi ada sebab kenapa die berkelakuan begitu? Dan tak lupe juga, 'perempuan yg clubbing' - apa, mereka dah xlayak dipanggil manusia ke, sbb mereka hny 'layak dijadikan alat permainan' lelaki2 yg ada inferiority complex.
Oh ya, contoh ketiga aku nk maksudkan ttg definisi 'baik' yg tipikal di kalangan pelajar. Ambil contoh lah, mcm zaman aku blajar kt U dlu, assignment byk, kdg2 weekend pn sibuk buat semata2 nk kejar deadline. So mmg xde life, (alah, mcm zmn kerja skg lah, tp zmn keja lain sket, anyway, tu akn diulas dlm next post)...
Pastu aku ni rajin jwb soalan dlm kelas...bkn nk tunjuk pndai, tp dah aku tau jwpn die, aku jwb lah.. but take note, ni bukan kelas yg comlicated, aku dlu amek kos bahasa inggeris, so yg aku jwb tu, bnda2 common sense n grammar...tu je...bkn lah sumthing like very scientifical and rocket-science-y or accounting kehape...juz, plain english...
But ppl often mistake me as someone yg konon 'nerdy' n 'smart' n like, sgt studious... (and it doesn't help that i hv an innocent face, not proud of it, i tell u)..when actually I'm just a person who prioritizes work / study above all else...I still enjoy fun stuffs like karaoke-ing, punk rock music, and I am FAR from a conservative person when it comes to lewd / controversial / suggestive ideas / movies / song etc. I just see it as my ability to be open minded and think outside of the box. Yelah, umur dah 20-an, xkan lah xtau tg bnda2 dlm kain? Nanti dah kawen mcm mane... heheh..
Anyways (alamak mati sume org igt aku pervert or smtg)
OK, so...my point is, ppl, n most ppl love to make a first impression...I don;t really blame them, cuz I'm guilty as charged as well. But to make a hasty judgment on someone just because how they dress, or how their past is, is just...well...a hasty generalization....
(But really, I just don't understand perogols, expecially yg makan anak / darah daging sendiri..they're like....urgh!)
OK, which brings us to, - 'jahat'...apa itu jahat...jahat means when one is not being 'nice', when it's something deviant (Sapian Mamat's word), when something is out of the norm of 'baik' folks...
But one thing that always left me wondering, usually all these ppl yg suke cop diri sdri 'jahat' (ok lah, kalo bkn yg jnis hardcore, label diri sdri 'notty' la - notty in the sense, wat2 kesalahan yg minor2 je...xbuat keje skolah skali skala, ponteng klas skali skala...tp budak pempuan la..bkn budak lelaki..n then claim diri 'jahat'.Sangat.)....sebenarnye dorg xla jht mane...jht manje2 je... (buwek!) tp ske nk claim diri 'jahat'...dan selalunye...org2 yg masyarakat slalu ckp 'baik' ni..dlm diri dorg, kdg2 lg evil /melencong dr manusia2 yg jahat2 manje ni...
Pada aku, sng ckp cmni lah...kite kn biasa tgk movie2 high school matsaleh kn, di mana, plotnya mst ade budak geek / nerd yg slalu kne buli dan lurus bendul, pastu ade watak budak2 jahat @ mean girls yg bitchy atau jock guyz yg ske membuli secara fizikal... pastu at the end of the movie, si nerd akan succeed...succeed tu mcm mane ? succeed tu, well, they gain confidence...they have the gut to bls balik what those bullies used to do to them...and then, makeover (ah, so tipikal, tanggal2 spek mata, pkai lelawa bagai)...anyway, my point is, yes....itu reasonnya...
Sdgkn dlm agama pn ade ckp, sekelip mata je Tuhan boleh balik2kan hati kita, org yg warak boleh bertukar jahat, dan org yg hantu pn boleh, tidak mustahil, untuk berubah menjadi org alim...kdg2 lbh alim dr org yg umum tahu mmg alim...
Jd apa lagi yg ingin aku sampaikan di sini?
Korang semua, please....jgn judge org, jgn cpat buat kesimpulan, dan jgn terlalu bencikan seseorang...sbb kdg2 bile kte terlalu benci seseorg, alih2 kita akn dpt blk apa yg kita bencikan tu...alah, bak kata org2 Melayu 'terkena balik batang hidung sendiri'...
And please, be more critical-minded and open urself up to ppl...pls don't be crammed up in a box, surrounded by the same mentality of ur clan / folks / ppl whatever...the world is massive n kita xtau ttg semuanya...
TQ.
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